Anybody's child wants to
be a RESCUE WORKER
or a PEACEKEEPER?

by Foong Wai Fong
 

 
Chinese version
 
 

Pahlawan Poll

If your child comes up to you and says he wants to be a rescue worker or peacekeeper, how would you feel?

Immensely proud of him, support and encourage him.
Accept that it is his choice.
Accept but hope he would change his mind.
Discourage him. Only danger and no money.
 


Current Results
  The world is nearing disaster-fatigue. Let’s not go too far back. Let’s begin with Kosovo -- millions uprooted and displaced in an ethnic-cleansing war. Then we have the earthquakes in Turkey, Greece and now Taiwan. There were also the worst weather disasters -- Hurricane Floyd ravaged the US, Typhoon York hit Hong Kong. To top it all, a man-made tragedy right in our backyard -- the traumatic East Timor humanitarian disaster. 

It is hard to turn our back or be switch-off to the pains, tears, despair and helplessness of the victims, but amidst the tragedies; an illuminating face of humanity lifts our spirit. 

These are the faces of the rescue workers, peacekeepers, humanitarian volunteers, journalists, United Nations officials and aid workers. They are responding to cries for help, risking their own safety, reaching out to those in pain.

A decade ago, few Asians would aspire to these professions, they may even think that you are out of your mind for suggesting. Today’s younger ones have new ideas and they think differently about these undertakings. Perhaps from where we come from, most of us grew up with only meat on festivals and walk to school barefoot; trying to make ends meet is our sole preoccupation. We are obsessed with security. Asians in general, and Malaysians included are guilty of thinking about money and money alone, 24 hours a day. Economic considerations influence most if not all our responses to life situations. 

Listen to the following. Aren’t they familiar?

  • Wow! Beautiful dress, designer brand. How much?
  • A big house. Must cost a fortune? 
  • You  are marrying this guy? He rich or not?
  • Studying abroad, good. You will make lots of money.
  • You are in a consultancy business, must be good money.
  • What! You are going to have a baby. Taking nine months off, do you know  how much money you are losing?
  • Go in politics, serve the people? Don’t be ridiculous!
  • Volunteers. Mad ar! There is no money. Why not stay home and watch TV?
When I took time off to write a book, my business associates thought I am out of mind. Why not trade stocks? Writing a book can make money or not?  They were concerned for me.
 

Developing our capacity to love

Tzu Chi Foundation (global volunteer group dedicated to disaster relief work) founder Master Cheng Yen said of compassion and volunteer work, “Don’t think that because we are going out there to help, we are great. We should be thankful that there is an opportunity for us to learn about ourselves, whether we indeed have the capacity to love?” 

One middle aged chief executive/owner of a public company who is active in Tzu Chi’s work shared with me his experience working as a volunteer. “In volunteering, you are the greatest beneficiary. You learn about your inner self. When I go as many times as possible to visit this old man and bathe him, I was amazed that I can do this. You have to know that I don’t even do this to my father!”
 

Disaster Relief is different from Charity
Full view of cartoon here! :)Malaysians have done lots of charity in the past. This is a very self-reliant and self-help community. These are great values we will continue to celebrate. The Nipah Crisis also provided us the opportunity to learn more about ourselves. As a community we care about each other. Their humanity came forward when they witnessed how other people suffer in a tragedy. The JE Humanitarian Fund collected a record $27 million – the largest amount collected in Malaysian history. 

However, the Crisis also taught us that we were immensely inexperienced in disaster relief work. The irony was side by side...

  • in one column of the newspaper, we see the presentation of mock cheques for big donations to some political leaders
  • the very next column, we see a report of Nipah Victims having to return to their contaminated villages because they could not afford to continue renting outside! 


By the way, Malaysians have yet to see a complete report of the disbursement of this fund. We, lucky Malaysians indeed have a lot to learn about “disaster-relief” work. 
 

Do we just care for money?

  • Big houses, beautiful homes, only servants live in.
  • Cupboards full of clothes, you don’t even remember whether you have ever worn some of them. 
  • Shop and shop all day, go for cheap sales, your house has turned into a warehouse.
  • Big, bigger houses. 
  • New, newer cars. 
  • Wife, more and younger, SYMBOL of a successful man. 
And yes, one more thing, get your picture in the newspaper –no matter what you do. 

Anything  wrong with materialism, money and fame? Nothing. Properly deployed, these are our great servants. With financial security, you acquired the ability to help others. Buy the best designer brand watch, so you stop buying any more watches.

Fame is useful, when it helps you open doors and gets things done. Money, materialism and fame are great servants, if they remain servants. And you must never forget you are the master of your humanity, where you continue to extend your zone of concern, from your own well being to that of the larger whole. 

I am reminded of a reflection one wise man uses, “If I don’t do it, who will? If I don’t it now, when will I? If I only do it for myself, WHO am I?”

Indeed, studies have shown that people don’t work for money. They care about larger issues other than money. Think about these...

  • What is the meaning of your own well being when you have to install three water filters along the water pipeline that comes into your house? 
  • You need an ionizer and air conditioning to shut out the dirty air outside and make the air in your office and home clean? 
  • You have to contract a farmer to grow vegetables for your family because you don’t trust those being sold in the markets! 
  • But the question is: can you and your family live in a safe fortress of paradise inside, when outside is all hell and chaos?
The world we know seems to have very different priorities, rightly or wrongly. It is very difficult to fathom why rational human beings are thinking this way. Or maybe we are not that rational, afterall. 

Watching over us, Mother Nature seems to have something strong to say. For over two years now, she still hasn’t said enough – the fury is continuing. Science and Technology cannot provide an adequate answer for all these. Perhaps our innerselves have the answers.

Find out by asking yourself, how would you feel if your child comes up to you and said, “mom and dad, when I grow up, I want to become a rescue worker? Or a peacekeeper?"
 

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Kuala Lumpur, October 3, 1999

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